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In 2024, The Dallas Express reported that Lovejoy Independent School District (ISD) dismissed concerns from parents regarding books containing sexually explicit content deemed inappropriate for children. Following The Dallas Express’ reporting and Rep. Jared Patterson (R-Frisco) paying a fee to obtain the full list of such books found in the district’s libraries, the list was made available to the public. However, the district voted unanimously to deny concerned parent Laura Giles’ request to remove the books, despite previously admitting that the materials were “harmful, obscene, or pervasively vulgar,” according to Citizens Defending Freedom. “A bloody photo shoot dedicated to the teacher’s “struggles with mental illness” featuring a drowning photo.” – Sara Gonzales  on X Mrs. Giles, the concerned mother, was painted as a troublemaker, got charged excessive fees, and the district illegally withheld public information from her, Citizens Defending Freedom reported. Among the list of books that the district admitted was inappropriate was Me and Earl and the Dying Girl by Jesse Andrews, with one passage stating, “Yeah, Earl, I’m going to eat her p*ssy.” … “Do you even know how to eat p*ssy?” … “Papa Gaines never sat you down, said, Son, one day you’re going to have to eat the p*ssy.” “No. But he did teach me how to eat a b*tthole,” along with many other disturbing passages. The district later reportedly removed the inappropriate books, but parents have reported that the district still has explicit material in its libraries. “A woman seemingly suffocating, then depicted lifeless with plastic wrap around her face.” – Sara Gonzales  on X. The controversy unfolded amid ongoing legislative efforts in Texas to ban sexually explicit books in schools and limit the promotion of gender ideology to children. In 2023, Texas lawmakers passed House Bill 900, requiring booksellers to rate the sexually explicit content of materials sold to school libraries. Meanwhile, critics have dubbed these efforts the Texas “Don’t Say Gay” laws, arguing that they silence LGBTQ+ voices in schools. Supporters argue the laws protect children from inappropriate content, especially in taxpayer-funded environments. While “Me and Earl and the Dying Girl" was the only specific title cited in the reporting, the list of challenged books reportedly included 40 titles in total, many of which were “LGBTQIA-themed” or included graphic depictions of sex. Among them are Gender Queer by Maia Kobabe, This Book Is Gay by Juno Dawson, Flamer by Mike Curato, and All Boys Aren’t Blue by George M. Johnson. Critics of the district’s decision argue that these titles clearly fall under the legal definitions of obscenity outlined in recent Texas legislation. “A photo of a woman holding a shovel standing over a lifeless-looking child, depicting child murder.” – Sara Gonzales  on X Disturbing allegations were reported in March regarding Brittney Stroud, a Middle School Lovejoy Independent School District (ISD) teacher, who allegedly played music with explicit lyrics to her middle school students and recommended sexually charged TV shows. Texas Family Project reported that Stroud told students who were uncomfortable with the recommendations that they “have big brains” and “can handle it.” Parents told the Family Project that when students or their parents complained, the students faced retaliation. Following reporting by the Texas Family Project (TFP) and their Vice President, Sara Gonzales, Lovejoy ISD took swift action and placed Brittney Stroud on administrative leave pending an investigation. “We will follow through on this one, @lovejoyisd1. Do right by Texas kids,” Sara wrote. This is just the latest development in a string of disturbing stories that have emerged over the past several years involving the Lovejoy Independent School District, located in Collin County, Texas. In June 2023, Texas Scorecard reported that a former special education aide at Lovejoy High School, Alisha Feuerbacher, was arrested for an alleged improper relationship with a student—an incident that occurred after she had left the district. In June 2022, Ray Cooper, known by students as “Creepy Cooper,” resigned after sending sexually suggestive messages to a student, although his teaching certificate remains active. “A photoshoot with a woman wielding and licking a bloody knife, called ‘fed up housewife.’” – Sara Gonzales  on X. Stroud has also posted a series of extremely disturbing images, including bloody photos dedicated to her “struggle with mental illness,” one of which depicts someone drowning in a bathtub. Other photos include one titled “Fed Up Housewife,” showing a woman licking a bloody knife; a woman’s head wrapped in plastic; a woman standing over a dead body in a scene depicting child murder; and an image of bloody hands with a man standing behind a window. This is what happens when schools prioritize political agendas over parental concerns and student safety. The LGBTQ+ agenda is being pushed through explicit materials in taxpayer-funded libraries. These books go far beyond inclusion and cross into graphic, sexualized content targeting minors. Titles like Gender Queer and This Book Is Gay aren’t about acceptance; they’re about indoctrination, often under the guise of “diversity.” The outrage surrounding Brittney Stroud’s behavior and the grotesque images in her portfolio only adds to the growing concern: that some educators not only dismiss parents, but actively promote content and conduct that desensitize children to sexual themes and violence. Despite repeated warnings, the Lovejoy ISD and districts like it have continued to defend this material, most of it “LGBTQIA-themed,” while punishing those who speak up. This isn’t about being “anti-LGBTQ+” or censoring literature. It’s about protecting children. And the louder the defenders of this content scream “Don’t Say Gay,” the more obvious it becomes that what they really fear is accountability. “Bloody hands with a young male behind a window.” – Sara Gonzales  on X. References   Former LoveJoy ISD Special Ed Teacher Arrested for ‘Improper Relationship’ With Student. (2022, June 22.) Texas Scorecard. https://texasscorecard.com/local/lovejoy-isd-special-ed-teacher-arrested-for-improper-relationship-with-student/   Lovejoy School Board Refuses to Change Policy that Allows Vulgar Books to Remain in Libraries, Disparages Concerned Parent Instead. (2024, July 3). Citizens Defending Freedom. https://www.citizensdefendingfreedom.com/post/lovejoy-school-board-refuses-to-change-policy-that-allows-vulgar-books-to-remain-in-libraries-dispa   No Love Lost at Lovejoy ISD. (2024, July 7). Dallas Express. https://dallasexpress.com/education/no-love-lost-at-lovejoy-isd/   Texas Family Project Shines Light on Disturbing Lovejoy ISD Teacher Case. (2025, March 9). Texas Family Project. https://www.texasfamilyproject.com/post/texas-family-project-shines-light-on-disturbing-lovejoy-isd-teacher-case   X. (2025, March 7). Sara Gonzales. https://x.com/search?q=from%3ASaraGonzalesTX%20%E2%80%9CWe%20will%20follow%20through%20on%20this%20one%2C&src=typed_query   X. (2025, March 7). Sara Gonzales. https://x.com/SaraGonzalesTX/status/1898086697461600276   X. (2025, March 8). Sara Gonzales. https://x.com/SaraGonzalesTX/status/1898351138564452492

New York City Congresswoman Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez has endorsed Zohran Mamdani for mayor in an effort to defeat Andrew Cuomo. Zohran will pour MILLIONS of tax dollars into “community gender clinics” to inject kids with puberty blockers. No parental knowledge needed!   AOC previously endorsed a $65 million plan to sterilize confused kids & punish anyone who says no. $8 MILLION is going to “virtual” gender clinics that deal hormones over webcam. No oversight.   A teenager could get life-altering drugs through telehealth without ever stepping into a doctor’s office without parents ever knowing.   "Sterilize more children....or else."   Mamdani's plan FORCES medical providers to hand out castration drugs like candy.   His administration believes that age restrictions are "unconstitutional," and therefore, not complying with these demands results in legal punishment. "I'm here with thousands of New Yorkers, standing up for trans kids!"   Zohran Mamdani and Gays Against Groomers attended the same protest.   Needless to say, were on opposing sides. He plans to fund the COIN Clinic, where kids get hormones behind their parents’ backs.   A socialist with a scalpel. This is state-sponsored medical abuse, a taxpayer-funded pipeline to irreversible harm. He wants YOU to pay for it. Gays Against Groomers tried voicing our concerns to AOC in Washington DC, but she ignored us, like our opinions didn't matter.   These so-called "progressives" claim to "uplift LGBTQIA+ voices" but only when it suits their narrative.   Funny how that works. New York City: Vote like your children's ’ lives depend on it!   Keep the kiddie-cutter cult OUT of office. References : https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/05/nyregion/aoc-endorse-mamdani-mayor.html   https://www.zohranfornyc.com/platform#lgbtq%E2%80%A6   https://drive.google.com/file/d/1pMQhFiQEZh0PgI8q1PL2NTCvM5JT5-ee/view?usp=sharing   https://socialists.nyc/press-releases/media-advisory-zohran-mamdani-jabari-brisport-kristen-gonzalez-and-alexa-aviles-join-rally-to-protect-trans-kids/   https://x.com/againstgrmrs/status/1886566622707478936?t=mmzIM_X_Sw1KKLVtl4Adug&s=19   https://www.instagram.com/reel/DF0u7KHpLJp/?igsh=YmRmNjExamt4enJw   https://gomag.com/article/zohran-mamdani-announces-protection-plan-for-lgbtq-new-yorkers/

As Gays Against Groomers (GAG) celebrates its third anniversary, the organization reflects on a transformative year of advocacy, legislative victories, and international influence in its mission to protect children and women from sexualization, indoctrination, and medicalization under the guise of “LGBTQ+ rights.” Since its founding in 2022, GAG has evolved into a global force for common sense, achieving milestones that underscore its growing impact. A defining moment came on February 5, 2025, when GAG’s President and Founder, Jaimee Michell, was invited to the White House  to witness the signing of the Executive Order “ Keeping Men Out of Women’s Sports .” This order established sweeping mandates on sex and sports policy, directing federal agencies, including the Department of Justice, to interpret Title IX rules as prohibiting transgender girls and women from participating in female sports categories. “This policy is a victory for fairness and truth, reflecting years of our advocacy to safeguard girls’ opportunities and spaces,” Michell stated. GAG’s legislative efforts in 2025 were equally historic. The organization tracked 1,347 bills nationwide, with 12 advocates delivering over 150 testimonies on more than 80 pieces of legislation across 30 states. GAG flipped 80 Democrat legislators and built a coalition with groups like Mom’s for Liberty , Heritage Foundation , and Women’s Liberation Front, matching trans activists’ presence in previously dominated states. A standout achievement was the campaign against Colorado HB25-1312 , where GAG mobilized in just 24 hours, leading to a record-breaking 100,000 emails, 20,000 phone calls, and 710 testimonies—crashing the state’s website and running testimony past midnight. Our influence has even expanded across the Atlantic when Jaimee Michell delivered a keynote address at the “LGB Interrupted” conference in Dublin, Ireland, on May 31, 2025. Organized by Not All Gays , this event focused on challenging gender ideology and its impact on the lesbian, gay, and bisexual community, aligning perfectly with GAG’s mission . Michell’s speech, where she stated, “The gay community has been hijacked. We’re being used as a human shield for an agenda that targets children,” resonated with audiences amidst a growing international movement of LGB groups distancing themselves from transgender activism. Our Director of Operations , Director of Media , and Director of Content also traveled to the UK to be featured guests at the "Jam for Freedom" festival! These marked a significant step in GAG’s global advocacy, reflecting the transatlantic shift in discourse on these critical issues. Beyond legislation, GAG amplified its message through high-profile platforms, speaking at the Supreme Court in December 2024 and headlining rallies like the “Worldwide Stop the War on Children ” across 20+ U.S. cities, Canada, and Germany in 2023. Culturally, GAG’s 2024 book, The Gender Trap: The Trans Agenda’s War Against Children , and the Dark Side of the Rainbow podcast have reached millions, while a 2024 campaign against Target ’s Pride merchandise led to a significant policy shift. Despite being banned from 16 platforms, GAG’s social media presence has soared to nearly 1 million followers as of June 3, 2025. Looking ahead, GAG remains committed to ending the war on children and women, calling for continued support through donations and merchandise purchases at https://shop.gaysagainstgroomers.com/ Gays Against Groomers is a coalition of gay and lesbian individuals dedicated to protecting children and women from harm done in the name of the LGBTQIA+ community. Founded in 2022, GAG advocates for policies that prioritize safety, fairness, and truth.

Many doctors, nurses, and medical staff, including pharmacists, genuinely inform you of the positive effects of certain drugs, sometimes to the extent that you have patient counseling to learn of the potential harms they have, if not taken properly. However, with the push for gender ideology, many of these drugs are still being prescribed for children and teens, even with the EO going out to block and ban gender-affirming care. Here’s a list of the side effects of each drug and how common or uncommon they are: 1. Cross-Sex  Estrogen (Estradiol) Side Effects & Commonality: • Breast tenderness or pain – Common (20–50%). • Weight gain – Common (10–20%; higher unmonitored). • Nausea or vomiting – Common (10–20% early, often subsides). • Mood swings or depression – Variable (10–30%; worse unmonitored). • Headaches or migraines – Uncommon (5–10%; higher unmonitored with overdose). • Liver strain or elevated liver enzymes – Uncommon (1–5% oral; rare transdermal; higher unmonitored). • Gallbladder disease or gallstones – Uncommon (1–5%; higher oral, unmonitored unclear). • Hyperprolactinemia (rarely prolactinomas) – Uncommon (1–5%; prolactinomas <0.5%; higher unmonitored). • Increased risk of blood clots – Uncommon (1–5% monitored; 5–10%+ unmonitored, higher with oral forms or smoking). • Elevated risk of stroke or heart attack – Rare (<1% monitored; uncommon 2–5% unmonitored with risk factors). • Increased risk of estrogen-sensitive cancers (e.g., breast cancer) – Rare (<1% short-term; uncommon long-term unmonitored). 2. Progesterone  (Micronized Progesterone or Progestins) Side Effects & Commonality: • Breast tenderness – Common (20–40%). • Bloating or water retention – Common (10–30%). • Mood changes (depression, irritability, or anxiety) – Variable (10–30%; worse unmonitored). • Weight gain – Common (10–20%; higher unmonitored). • Fatigue or drowsiness – Common (10–20%). • Increased appetite – Uncommon (5–15%). • Headaches – Uncommon (5–10%). • Acne or oily skin – Uncommon (5–10%). • Risk of blood clots (additive with estrogen) – Uncommon (1–5% with estrogen; higher unmonitored). • Potential insulin resistance or worsening glucose tolerance – Rare (<1% monitored; uncommon 1–5% unmonitored). • Rare risk of liver dysfunction – Rare (<1%; higher unmonitored with synthetics). 3. Spironolactone Side Effects & Commonality: • Increased urination – Common (20–50%). • Low blood pressure or dizziness – Common (10–20%; higher unmonitored). • Fatigue or lethargy – Common (10–20%).  • Gastrointestinal issues (nausea, cramps, or diarrhea) – Uncommon (5–10%). • Leg cramps or muscle weakness – Uncommon (5–10%). • Hyperkalemia (elevated potassium, potentially fatal) – Uncommon (1–5% monitored; 5–15%+ unmonitored). • Reduced kidney function – Rare (<1% monitored; uncommon 1–5% unmonitored). • Allergic reactions (rash) – Rare (<1%). 4. Cross-Sex   Testosterone  (e.g., Testosterone Cypionate  or Enanthate) Side Effects & Commonality: • Infertility – Common (50–80% long-term). • Increased cholesterol (higher LDL, lower HDL) – Common (10–30%; worse unmonitored). • Polycythemia (elevated red blood cell count) – Uncommon (5–10% monitored; 10–20%+ unmonitored). • Mood changes (irritability, aggression, or instability) – Uncommon (5–15%; higher unmonitored). • Weight gain – Uncommon (5–15%). • Vaginal atrophy or dryness – Uncommon (5–15%). • Hypertension (high blood pressure) – Uncommon (5–10%; higher unmonitored). • Headaches or migraines – Uncommon (5–10%). • Sleep apnea – Uncommon (1–5%; higher unmonitored). • Liver strain or damage – Rare (<1% injections; uncommon 1–5% oral, higher unmonitored). • Increased risk of cardiovascular disease – Rare (<1% short-term; uncommon 1–5% unmonitored long-term). 5. GnRH Agonists (e.g., Leuprolide , Triptorelin) Side Effects & Commonality: • Hot flashes or night sweats – Common (30–60%; dose-dependent). • Reduced libido – Common (20–50%). • Fatigue or lethargy – Common (10–20%). • Injection site reactions (pain, swelling, or redness) – Common (10–20% with injectables). • Mood changes (irritability, depression, or anxiety) – Variable (10–30%; worse unmonitored). • Decreased bone density (risk of osteopenia/osteoporosis) – Uncommon (5–10% short-term monitored; 10–20%+ unmonitored long-term, no calcium/vitamin D). • Headaches – Uncommon (5–10%). • Muscle or joint pain – Uncommon (5–10%). • Weight gain – Uncommon (5–15%). • Delayed growth plate closure (potential height impact) – Variable (depends on age/duration; height impact rare <1% monitored, unclear unmonitored). • Rare risk of pituitary apoplexy (sudden pituitary gland issue) – Rare (<0.1%; unmonitored risks unknown). Unmonitored Risks:        Estrogen:  Clot and liver risks spike without dose checks or risk factor management.        Progesterone:  Metabolic and clot risks increase with excessive dosing.        Spironolactone:  Hyperkalemia can be lethal without potassium monitoring.        Testosterone:  Polycythemia and cardiovascular risks escalate without blood work.        GnRH Agonists:  Bone density loss accelerates without calcium/vitamin D or monitoring, especially long-term. When we give children these drugs, we unnecessarily expose them to a lifelong risk of unwanted side effects, including the possibility of death. If these drugs are obtained through other means than a doctor, such as the black market, the risks of complications are much higher because the person taking them is not being monitored by medical staff. These drugs are highly dangerous if not properly monitored because there is a true risk of death or other lifelong issues that may incapacitate and disable someone. The gender ideologues pushing the "gender-affirming care" narrative have gotten the medical and mental health establishments to go along with the idea that affirming gender is the only answer to perceived gender dysphoria. We have to ask ourselves why we’re seeing a greater rise in gender dysphoria than at any other time in history. The reason for this increase is social effects, peer pressure, personal perceptions, and more—through the affirmation of a belief not centered in biological reality but in emotional psychology (Littman, 2018 ). When children show a propensity for playing with toys or other items associated with the opposite sex, it is mainly out of curiosity rather than gender dysphoria. It is not even rapid-onset gender dysphoria (ROGD); rather, this curiosity is being misinterpreted, with parents jumping to the conclusion that their child must be transgender, further reinforcing the belief through affirmation. This truly is a crime against humanity. The willful push for a child to be transgender is based on an errant belief in an ideology that is unproven without longitudinal and historical rigor and testing (D’Angelo et al., 2021 ). This is harmful to children on so many levels: mentally, the toll it will take on a child throughout the rest of their life; emotionally, the toll that may lead them down paths of regret; and physically, the toll of a shortened life, a disability, or even the possibility of death. People are blindly accepting the medical and mental health establishments, professionals who are supposed to help guide patients and clients down a healthy path. However, they do not need to affirm gender as part of treatment, yet they choose to. Challenging these professionals is something we all should be doing, not blindly accepting them on faith.I once talked to a PA (physician’s assistant) about this topic, and she surmised that the patient had already sought mental health care, without even checking with the patient’s mental health provider. It was shocking to learn that she did not verify the patient’s mental health status and instead blindly took the patient’s word that they were seeing someone. Now, consider the fact that parents are taking their children to these types of providers in their communities. And if they can’t find one locally, they will travel just to affirm a child’s displayed gender. With the “gender-affirming care” model, this has become a pipeline to harming children in the name of ideology rather than prioritizing their actual mental health. These are the challenges we face in the fight against the 'gender-affirmation care' model. Few medical and mental health professionals oppose this ideology, yet those who do are often silenced. Speaking out puts them at risk of losing their licenses and practices. This is deeply concerning because the American Psychological Association and the American Psychiatric Association are closely tied to WPATH, which has been exposed for corruption by journalists  and others . Additionally, the American Medical Association (AMA) is heavily influenced by pharmaceutical companies. Consider the doctors, nurses, and other medical staff who prioritize gender-affirming care over protecting children from harm. This system functions as an industry seeking lifelong patients, both medically and psychologically. At the end of the day, if fewer people transition, how will these institutions continue to profit? As someone who transitioned nearly thirty years ago and has since detransitioned, I have witnessed firsthand the growing dangers of the gender affirmation model. When I transitioned, I spent two years in therapy before being prescribed cross-sex hormones to feminize my body. There was far greater gatekeeping then compared to today, where reports emerge of individuals walking into a clinic and leaving with cross-sex hormones within half an hour, often without a blood test (Turban & Keuroghlian, 2018 ). Additionally, my therapy sessions never addressed my underlying trauma (Giovanardi et al., 2021 ). Looking back, I believe that if I had properly confronted my trauma, I might never have transitioned. However, hindsight is always speculative. Our goal should be to protect children from these harms. Children are not just precious gifts; they are our greatest resource for an enduring legacy. Safeguarding them is a responsibility we must all take seriously. If we do not stand up for them now, who will in the future? We are already witnessing the devastating effects of gender ideology on society. Transgender shooter Audrey Hale killed six people, including three children, at a Nashville school (Woods & McCord, 2023 ). In Indiana, transgender teen Trinity Shockley planned a Valentine’s Day school massacre (Cohen, 2025 ). Cults like the Zizians, linked to the brutal murder of a Pennsylvania couple, reveal how this violence is spreading (Davis & Lease, 2025 ). This is not just a political issue; it is a growing mental health crisis leaving children with lifelong scars. That is why we must act now before this becomes an irreversible failure. The tide is turning. President Trump’s executive orders banning “gender-affirming care,” supported by several states, are a step in the right direction. However, many organizations continue to defy these orders. We must put pressure on state legislators, governors, school boards, and other key decision-makers. Standing up and speaking out can make a difference. 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On May 1, 2025, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) released a landmark 400-page report, Treatment for Pediatric Gender Dysphoria: Review of Evidence and Best Practices , commissioned under President Donald Trump’s Executive Order 14187. Gays Against Groomers strongly supports this review. It marks a critical step toward evidence-based care, shielding vulnerable youth from irreversible harm, and restoring ethical standards in pediatric medicine. This article explores the HHS review’s findings, its significance, and why it aligns with our mission to safeguard children from medical experimentation and activist-driven agendas. The cover page of the HHS Review The HHS Review: A Science-Based Approach The HHS report, crafted by the Office of the Assistant Secretary for Health and the Office of Population Affairs, rigorously evaluates medical interventions for children with gender dysphoria, including puberty blockers, cross-sex hormones, and surgeries. Unlike guidelines from groups like the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH), which have faced criticism for ideological bias, this review prioritizes evidence-based medicine. It assesses the quality of existing research, weighs risks against benefits, and addresses the ethics of treating minors with irreversible procedures. The review’s findings are stark: there is “very weak evidence” supporting the benefits of medical interventions, while substantial research highlights risks like infertility, reduced bone density, cardiovascular issues, and psychological harm. These treatments, often branded as “gender-affirming care,” lack the scientific rigor to justify their use in children, whose developing bodies and minds are particularly vulnerable. The report also critiques the ethical lapses in current practices, noting that medical associations have stifled dissent and prioritized ideology over patient safety. These conclusions validate our long-held concerns: the push to medically transition children is not compassionate care but a reckless experiment fueled by activism. The review aligns with global trends, as nations like the UK, Sweden, and Finland have restricted these interventions for minors due to similar evidence. By embracing this shift, the U.S. is finally prioritizing child protection. As individuals within the community, we understand the importance of living authentically. Many of us have navigated complex journeys of self-discovery, but we recognize that children lack the maturity to make irreversible medical decisions, especially under social or ideological pressure. The HHS review supports our view that affirming a child’s gender dysphoria with invasive treatments is not liberation—it’s harm. Gender dysphoria, the distress from a mismatch between one’s gender identity and biological sex, is a psychological condition that demands careful, non-invasive treatment. Historically, psychotherapy was used to explore underlying causes like trauma or anxiety. The HHS report advocates for “exploratory psychotherapy” as a safer alternative to medical interventions, a recommendation we wholeheartedly endorse. This approach seeks to understand a child’s distress without rushing to alter their body. Critics, including some LGBTQ+ advocacy groups such as GLAAD and HRC , have mislabeled this as “conversion therapy.” This is a false narrative, and quite ironic coming from people and groups that are perfectly happy to transition children who would otherwise likely just grow up to be gay adults. Furthermore, conversion therapy, a discredited attempt to change sexual orientation, is unrelated to exploratory psychotherapy, which neutrally supports children in understanding their feelings. The HHS review debunks these mischaracterizations, exposing the tactics used to silence ethical care. The Risks of “Gender-Affirming Care” The HHS review meticulously details the risks of medical interventions, which proponents often downplay. Puberty blockers, falsely marketed as reversible, can cause infertility, bone density loss, and cognitive impacts. Cross-sex hormones, which induce permanent changes, increase risks of cardiovascular disease and psychological instability. Surgeries are irreversible and carry significant complications. The report emphasizes that these risks are unjustifiable given the weak evidence of benefit. The lack of high-quality research is a central concern. The review notes that many studies on "gender-affirming care" are biased, poorly designed, or lack long-term data, echoing the UK’s Cass Review, which deemed the evidence base “remarkably weak.” By relying on systematic reviews—the gold standard in medical research—the HHS report offers a credible counterpoint to activist-driven narratives. To us, these risks are personal. We’ve heard from detransitioners—young people who underwent medical transitions as minors and now face lifelong consequences. The HHS review’s focus on “do no harm” aligns with our mission to protect children from such outcomes. Ideology’s Grip on Medicine The report exposes how ideology has corrupted pediatric medicine. It reveals that medical associations, including the American Academy of Pediatrics, have suppressed debate to create a false consensus around "gender-affirming care." It also highlights instances of political pressure, such as former Biden administration officials urging WPATH to lower age limits for surgeries, prioritizing activism over evidence. This politicization is what Gays Against Groomers has fought against. Medicine should be guided by science, not ideology. The review challenges claims that "gender-affirming care" significantly reduces suicide risk, noting that such assertions lack robust data. It also questions terms like “gender identity” and “sex assigned at birth,” which obscure biological reality and confuse discussions about care for children. A Path to Ethical Care The HHS review calls for ethical, evidence-based alternatives, emphasizing mental health support for children with gender dysphoria, many of whom face co-occurring conditions like depression or anxiety. Psychotherapy can address these without irreversible interventions. The report also urges long-term studies to better understand treatment outcomes, empowering parents and clinicians to make informed decisions. This approach is a massive victory in the fight to end the war on children. It respects the complexity of gender distress while prioritizing safety. It also counters the coercion parents often face to consent to treatments they don’t fully understand, reinforcing medical ethics. Conclusion: A Triumph for Children The HHS review is a triumph for science, ethics, and child safety. It exposes the flaws in "gender-affirming care," challenges activist narratives, and offers a compassionate, evidence-based path forward. For all of us at Gays Against Groomers, it validates our fight to protect children from medical experimentation. We call on policymakers, clinicians, and the public to embrace the report’s findings and join us in ensuring that care for children is safe, ethical, and grounded in truth. Together, we can protect the next generation from irreversible harm and restore integrity to pediatric medicine. Sources: HHS https://www.hhs.gov/press-room/gender-dysphoria-report-release.html CNN https://www.cnn.com/2025/05/01/health/gender-affirming-care-trump-review Fox News https://www.foxnews.com/health/gender-dysphoria-treatments-pose-significant-risks-kids-teens-hhs-report-reveals

There is an ongoing discussion in the “gender-affirming care” debate about desistance and detransition, their similarities and differences, and why the distinction between them is important to recognize. Desistance: A desister is someone who experimented with social transition, changing their name, pronouns, and appearance to see if it would ease a perceived incongruence. They never medicalized, and over time, they came to realize that their feelings were fleeting or influenced by external factors. Since their identity wasn’t stable or persistent, they eventually dropped the social transition altogether. A review  of one qualitative study, two case studies, five quantitative studies, five ethical discussions, and twenty two editorials reported desistance in 83% of 251 participants. Thirty definitions of desistance emerged, with four common trends: disappearance of gender dysphoria (GD) feelings on identity discomfort alleviated after puberty, a shift away from trans identification, cessation of distress, and loss of desire for medical intervention. Source: Karrington, B. (2021). Defining Desistance: Exploring desistance in transgender and gender expansive youth through systematic literature review. Transgender Health, 7(3), 189–212.  https://doi.org/10.1089/trgh.2020.0129   Detransition: A detransitioner is someone who has undergone medical procedures to change their appearance, using hormones and surgery to alter their body, often driven by persistent and ongoing discomfort with their biological sex. Over time, for emotional, psychological, or health-related reasons, they decide to stop or reverse the medical transition. This can involve discontinuing hormone therapy, seeking surgeries to undo previous ones, or returning to their original gender expression. Detransitioning is often a complex process that requires addressing the physical, emotional, and social effects of the transition. Detransition refers to the cessation or reversal of transitioning, which can be social (gender presentation, pronouns), medical (hormone therapy), surgical, or legal. While detransition and regret are sometimes used interchangeably, they are distinct concepts that may overlap in some individuals.  Source: Irwig, M. S. (2022). Detransition among transgender and gender diverse people – an increasing and increasingly complex phenomenon. The Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism, dgac356. https://doi.org/10.1210/clinem/dgac356   Detransitioner Clementine shares her story with parental rights activist Billboard Chris. Both desistance and detransition  result in a patient's re-identification with their biological sex, but they are entirely different paths with clear differences. This distinction is important because one has been physically harmed in ways the other has not. Desisters have not been betrayed by the medical and mental health establishments in the same way as those who medicalized their bodies. Desisters have a place at this table, as their voices are just as important, but maintaining these distinctions is vital for detransitioners. Stories of detransition often come from a place of medical malpractice, while stories of desistance tend to be more psychosocial and identity-based. Conflating detransition and desistance muddies the waters for those who need proper terminology to meet their needs. The trans community is not about open discussion and finding common solutions; rather, the forced acceptance of the group as a whole is authoritarian and totalitarian in its approach. Anyone who strays from their ideology is shouted down and exiled. Detransitioners have voices that are hard to hear, and it is difficult for others to fathom what we have been through and how long the road to recovery is for some of us. Our voices are often stifled and dismissed by those who identify as transgender and those who enable them. We are the pariahs of the gender identity movement—refused recognition by those who will not acknowledge the harm they are causing, not just to us, but also to women who fight every day for their personal spaces and sports in the name of their gender beliefs. We need our voices to be heard, not silenced. We need to be seen. We need our stories told! People must wake up to the harm being perpetuated and help us stop others, especially children, from being harmed in the name of gender identity. Help us do this! Speak to your congresspersons and senators! Talk to your state legislators, school boards, and anyone else who will listen. Help us protect children from this harm!

It was an honor to give a speech at the Gays Against Groomers and Turning Point USA (TPUSA) event, where we stood together to defend children and speak the truth. The first time I was ever asked to give a public speech was when I was far younger. I was asked to give a speech in Washington, DC, for a politician I didn’t know and still don’t know. The speech was pre-written, and I was only selected to read it because I am a Tennessean. I don’t remember much about that speech. Migraine. Stomach turning. Lights hurt. Voices hurt. And there were cameras everywhere. This was at a moment in time when cameras pointing at you was a rare, unsettling occurrence. The speech bombed. I was fuchsia from head to toe, gripping the speech as though it was a life raft, and I never once looked up. Needless to say, I was literally kicked off of the stage. I have since grown and have presented PowerPoint presentations and classes at jobs. I’ve even read poetry in front of strangers. I was honored to give my second speech in a public setting on a topic that I hold dear. I was even allowed to write my own speech. I practiced and paced, thinking of more and more points that needed to be made. I don’t know how long that speech would have been, but it was far longer than the edited version. The speech I did at the TPUSA event went much better. This conference with Gays Against Groomers and Turning Point USA (TPUSA) was important. Miki (a.k.a. The Political Mixster), one of our Southeast Region Leaders, had worked hard on getting the details worked out and her presentation perfect. Although there were only nine of us, we continued our conference. Miki, Chelsea, and I represented our organization and the Tennessee chapter. Miki Lorren explained our mission, her photo shoot “Butch,” and how AI impacts our children’s well-being, especially when it comes to Gender Queer Ideology. Chelsea gave a heartwarming speech about how she sought GAG for the sake of her children. My speech was based on a growing issue of Gender Queer Ideology distorting the Christian community. Gays Against Groomers is made up of a myriad of religions and beliefs, and Gender Queer Ideology is bulldozing its way through every single one. It needs to stop. I am grateful that people are waking up, but we are still fighting against these loud voices who would see all children destroyed. We fight for the children and their right to live innocently and without harm. My speech calls out one particular person: Jamie Bruesehoff. She wrote a book called Raising Kids Beyond the Binary: Celebrating God’s Transgender and Gender Diverse Children, which attacks Christians and their faith. Regardless of how much you do to pay worship to the trans community, Bruesehoff assures you that it is not enough. It will never be enough.  Viewing this book from a Christian lens, since she claims it’s for Christians, we see how she twists and rewrites the scriptures to fit their narrative: “Transgender children are holy and should be worshipped as such.” Keep fighting for the truth, because the truth will win in the end. My Speech Good evening and thank you for being here, especially with this wonderful beach weather we’re having. I appreciate that you’re here and that you’re sharing your passion for saving children. Thank you, Hampton Inn & Suites for hosting us and a special thanks to TPUSA and Miki for putting this together. My name is Mandy Oaks and I’m the Director of Research and a writer for GAG. Our books: The Gender Trap  by Carla Curtis – an informative book filled with solid research to combat the lies of Gender Queer Ideology. And our first children’s book: Born Perfect: Jack’s Story .  I won’t say who wrote it – it was me. The illustrator, Ani Bilgutay did a phenomenal job bringing Jack and his family to life. (FYI: You’ll get an opportunity to win a signed copy in our raffle). Look for our next children’s book about a tomboy – this book is going to make you want to climb trees and skin your knees! Visit GAYSAGAINSTGROOMERS.COM for these books, articles, and more! We also have an upcoming documentary called “Leaving Amy” about our member, Matt, and his journey through transgenderism. Visit LEAVINGAMY.COM to be part of this project. One of the things I love about GAG is we’re made up of different beliefs and religions, yet we understand the evil that is being done to children and we fight to stop it. This is why we’re here: to combat the nefarious lens of Gender Queer Ideology. Everyone sees the world through a different lens, sometimes multiple lenses. Tonight, I invite you to see this battle through the lens of Christianity, because Gender Queer Ideology unapologetically rampages through religion. From “Church Drag Story hours and shows for children” to “Christian” and “Jewish” books to “Queers for Palestine,” this cult demands that we believe truth is as fluid as water and just as difficult to grasp. Their “my truth” movement has insidiously wrapped itself around society, attacking all who disagree. One such attack comes from Jamie Bruesehoff in her book, Raising Kids Beyond the Binary: Celebrating God’s Transgender and Gender Diverse Children . Using the lens of Gender Queer Ideology, Bruesehoff pretends to use a Christian lens to rewrite the Bible. She states a truth: we were created in the image of God; therefore, everyone is born perfect. However, Through mental gymnastics, Bruesehoff explains: being born white is toxic, children should be put on hormone blockers, their bodies need to be butchered to fit their ideal selves, and transchildren are holy and should be worshipped as such. All of this is a concerted effort to correct God’s perfectly imperfect image. She claims “people of faith do the most egregious harm to transgender and nonbinary people.” – Adults like us who state boys are boys and girls are girls are traumatizing children and causing them PTSD. Does God respect a person’s “truth?” Let’s look at Elijah. In 1 Kings 19, Queen Jezebel had all the prophets of God murdered. Elijah escaped, and believing he was the only prophet of God left, he begged God to take his life. This was Elijah’s “truth.” Did God affirm Elijah’s “truth?” Of course not. God corrected Elijah; explaining that his work wasn’t finished and he wasn’t the only man of God left: 7,000 people had not worshipped Baal. But…under Gender Queer Ideology, God is cruel by not affirming Elijah’s truth. This is the slippery “truth” Bruesehoff and other ideologists want you to believe. You must affirm your child’s “truth” no matter what: If your son believes he’s a girl, affirm it. If your daughter believes she’s a cat, affirm it. If your child believes…You see the point. Bruesehoff and other Gender Queer Ideologists do not care about children. They sacrifice children to their god – Gender Queer Ideology – And if you don’t affirm their truth…You will suffer their wrath.  They forget the wrath of God: “But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to sin, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were drowned in the depth of the sea.” – Matthew 18:6 They forget, because they don’t believe in God. We don’t fear their wrath. We see through the lens of THE TRUTH: Children’s innocence should be valued and protected. May God bless you for standing strong and fighting for the future of all children! References  Gays Against Groomers Publishing. The Gender Trap: The Trans Agenda’s War Against Children. 2024. TheGenderTrap.com Amazon: a.co/d/ipeAyYJ   Gays Against Groomers Publishing. Born Perfect: Jack’s Story. 2024. https://books.gaysagainstgroomers.com/   Bruesehoff, J. (2023). 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Arlington County , Virginia, just became ground zero for the ultimate betrayal  of parents, kids, and common sense, all in the name of radical gender ideology. A convicted sex offender, Richard “Rich” Cox, exploited Arlington Public Schools’ ( APS ) “self-ID” policy to enter girls’ locker rooms fully naked in front of children. APS  officials were warned, but instead of stopping him, they allowed  him to use female-only facilities under their “gender-inclusive” policies, which they defended at the expense of their own students . Richard Cox, a 58-year-old Tier III registered sex offender , the most serious classification, requiring lifetime registration, was arrested  after multiple incidents  where he exposed himself in female-only locker rooms at Washington-Liberty High School, Wakefield High School, and Barcroft Sports and Fitness Center. The first reported incident  occurred in September 2024 when a mother and her 9-year-old daughter walked into the girls’ locker room at Washington-Liberty High School and found Cox completely naked after a swim lesson. The girl was traumatized and needed to leave. And it didn’t stop there. Over the next several months, Rich Cox repeatedly entered girls’ spaces, exposing himself  at multiple locations: October & November 2024  – Cox exposed himself in the girls’ locker room at Wakefield High School. December 2024  – Cox was seen walking around completely nude in the female locker room at Barcroft Sports and Fitness Center in front of a woman and two minors. He allegedly  engaged in similar behavior at two Planet Fitness locations, Fairfax County’s Audrey Moore Rec Center, Oakmont Rec Center, and Franconia Rec Center. Over the summer, Cox  was charged with indecent exposure after being caught naked in the female-only locker room at Planet Fitness in Fairfax County. The charge was dismissed because Cox claimed to have legally changed his sex to female and found a loophole. One mother canceled her gym membership at Planet Fitness after learning Cox was using the girls’ locker room there as well, saying, “I was pregnant when I learned that a sex offender was using the women’s locker room at my gym. I canceled my membership immediately.” According to reports from 7News , community members and aquatics  center staff repeatedly complained about Rich Cox exposing himself in the girls' locker room. They had received complaints about this man  but claimed they “couldn’t do anything” because Cox identifies as transgender. A police report revealed that Richard Cox had been seen loitering in the locker room for over an hour, exposing himself to young girls. Witnesses described his behavior as “deliberate and prolonged.” At a heated school board meeting, furious parents demanded answers from Arlington Public Schools’ leadership. Democrat and lesbian activist Burton Nelson slammed Arlington Public Schools for putting girls in danger: “Girls and women are not safe in the presence of any naked men. That’s why we have two separate locker rooms!” Superintendent Francisco Durán refused to acknowledge anyone's concerns. Nowhere in his response did he address the trauma faced by the victims or the legitimate safety concerns of parents: “Our facilities are designed to be safe, welcoming spaces where our community can come to connect, engage, and focus on their health and well-being.” Rather than admitting their policy was exploited by a repeat sexual predator with a 30-year history of targeting children, school  officials are doubling down. Their solution? Telling girls and women who feel uncomfortable with a naked male sex offender in their locker room that they should be the ones to use “family changing areas” instead. This response is eerily similar to the Loudoun County scandal, when school officials covered up a bathroom sexual assault by a male student wearing a skirt…only for him to later assault another girl at a different school. This isn’t just negligence. It’s deliberate child endangerment. Court records show Rich Cox has served multiple prison sentences dating back to the 1980s for exhibitionism-related  crimes. Cox has a documented history of “severe sexual paraphilia of exhibitionism” and “compulsive sexual behaviors.” In 1995 , Cox himself admitted in a letter to a judge that he suffered “compulsions to expose [his genitalia] in public places.” His criminal history goes back decades, and he has spent his life preying on minors. 1992 : Convicted of indecent liberties with children after exposing himself and masturbating in front of minors at a gymnasium. 2007:  Convicted of possessing child pornography. 2020:  Placed on Virginia’s Most Wanted List after violating probation and failing to register as a sex offender. In bodycam footage  obtained by 7News, Cox argued that his rights and protections based on “gender identity” give him the ability to do what he does. He boldly states, “My civil rights as a transgender person allow me to use a public facility, including the restrooms that identify with my gender.”  NOBODY has a civil right to flash their genitals at little girls. The controversy has now escalated to the federal level. The Defense of Freedom Institute ( DFI ) has now filed a Title IX complaint against Arlington Public Schools , arguing that the district failed to protect students from sexual misconduct. DFI is demanding a full federal investigation and policy changes to prevent further violations. Title IX prohibits sex-based discrimination in federally funded education programs, with “sex” defined as biological sex (male or female) at birth, as confirmed by multiple federal courts and the Supreme Court. Since 1975, Title IX regulations allow schools to maintain sex-separated facilities to protect women and girls. The Biden-Harris Administration’s proposed updates would have expanded “sex discrimination” to include “gender identity,” mandating open access to facilities based on self-identification. However, last month, the Trump Administration's Department of Education – Office for Civil Rights put out a new directive, rendering the proposed updates invalid. Arlington Public Schools can no longer justify its dangerous policies by citing the Biden-Harris “gender identity” provisions because they were unlawful and vacated. Under Arlington Public Schools'  policy, Cox’s claim of being a "woman" was enough to grant him unrestricted entry into spaces meant for young girls, even though he is a known sexual predator. Local parents have had enough. They are demanding major policy changes, including: 1. Immediate restrictions preventing biological males from using female-designated spaces. 2. Stronger background checks for those accessing public school and community facilities. 3. A formal apology and accountability from the school's leadership for failing to protect students. Police records show he has been charged with twelve counts of “Sex Offender in Proximity to Children,” three counts of “Sex Offender Entering School/Child Day Center Property,” four counts of Indecent Exposure, two counts of Taking Indecent Liberties with Children, one count of Identity Theft, etc. The sex offender remains in custody, but police believe there may be additional victims and are urging anyone with information to come forward. This case proves once again that “gender inclusivity” policies are being used as a smokescreen for predators to take advantage of vulnerable children. Arlington Public Schools, like Loudoun County, has shown where its priorities lie. Girls deserve safe spaces. Parents deserve accountability. And serial sex offenders do not belong in girls’ locker rooms, no matter how they “identify.” References Thank you to our Research Team, led by Mandy, whose work allows us to deliver robust investigations and well-sourced reporting.  ABC 7 News - WJLA. (2025). 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In the month since President Donald J. Trump’s 2025 inauguration, he has issued an important executive order  to reverse the imposition of radical gender ideology, among other ideologies, on our youth in schools. How are teachers and other public school personnel navigating this change in a blue state? To find out, I attended a local GLSEN event focused on “trans and queer youth, allies, and educators.” The event was planned long before the election, so it was not intended as a response to Trump’s executive orders. However, in many ways, it served that purpose. In this article, I report on the personal responses of faculty and staff. This article does not reflect school policies or plans. Staff and faculty experiences are shaped not only by the community where their school is located, but also by the personal values of their principal. In the discussions I observed at the summit, representatives from four school districts within the state participated. Two were from liberal areas, and two were from conservative areas. The order mandates a 90-day deadline from its issuance to implement the required changes to maintain federal funding. This gives schools a grace period to either implement the changes or restructure their funding. Faculty in conservative areas report that their principals have required them to remove all Pride flags from classrooms and to stop discussing gender to comply with the order. One teacher, with multicolored hair and glitter on her face, is using her tenure to push back against the administration and is refusing to remove the Pride flags from her classroom. In response, other teachers suggested wearing rainbow shirts to school instead. This proposal was met with support. Students and faculty in conservative areas report that their peers are now more likely to speak out against what they view as gender indoctrination, which they describe as "hate." However, they overlook the fact that those who have opposed mixed-sex public bathrooms or compelled pronoun usage have faced harsh silencing for years. During the discussion, the moderator emphasized the importance of inclusion and safety but failed to acknowledge that conservative students' and faculty members' perspectives have long been dismissed as bigotry. Where is their "safe space?” Nowhere. Inclusion, it seems, only extends to those who support dismantling single-sex spaces and endorsing the medical transition of distressed children. Many of these children are autistic and too young to consent to sterilization or the lifelong medical risks that come with it. In contrast, teachers in liberal communities were willing to risk losing federal funding for their schools or districts in defiance of the order, which prohibits discussing sexuality and "gender identity” with children. Despite our state's ranking as one of the lowest in public education success, these teachers and support staff are prepared to further compromise students' education for the sake of ideology. Their commitment to indoctrinating children is unwavering because they themselves have been indoctrinated. In the breakout group on supporting and maintaining GSA (formerly Gay-Straight Alliance, now Gender-Sexuality Alliance) groups, there was no mention of whether Trump’s executive order impacts these school-sponsored organizations. Whether it does or not remains a matter of interpretation, as no clear precedent has been set. Educators were informed that for a GSA to exist, students must initiate it. As a result, these organizations tend to fluctuate as members graduate or age out of a particular school. The group discussed ways for students to sign up without revealing their names. They also explored renaming the club, suggesting options like Ally Club or Social Justice Club, to obscure its purpose from parents and possibly administrators while continuing to promote gender ideology in schools. One teacher shared an example of how, at a particular school, student anxiety over political changes was addressed by encouraging them to engage in the political process. They were taught to read bills, attend legislative meetings, and speak at school board meetings. While I believe teaching kids how to follow and influence policy is valuable, I disagree with spreading fear. Instead, teach them resilience. Help them understand that they will be okay, even if gender ideology is removed from schools or if they must wait until adulthood to pursue medical transition. We should foster strength, not the idea that every aspect of their self-concept must be affirmed by the world, even at the expense of others, in order to "prevent suicide.” Multiple organizations had tables set up at the back of the room, displaying swag and flyers. Colorful spreads of stickers, brochures, candy, free menstrual products, and condoms promoted pro-gender ideology organizations aimed at children. Planned Parenthood distributed stickers celebrating “Marsha P. Johnson” as the hero(ine) of the Stonewall Rebellion. However, the term "riot" is contested by those who were present that night and in the following days. Planned Parenthood is actively participating in the rewriting of the Gay Rights Movement’s history, nearly canonizing Saint Marsha P., a cross-dressing gay man who, by his own admission, was not present at the start of the Stonewall event. When Jim Fouratt, a long-time Greenwich Village resident and gay rights activist who was at the Stonewall Inn that night, stated the truth about Marsha’s absence, he was disinvited from the 50th Anniversary celebration of the rebellion. Why is it so important to rewrite gay history to center the modern trans narrative in a past that today’s youth do not remember? GLSEN displayed books from their “Rainbow Library,” which are available to any school teacher who requests a set. These books serve as tools of indoctrination for younger students in elementary school. By middle and high school, some contain overtly adult sexual content, like All Boys Aren’t Blue.  This book is available in many public middle school libraries and is accessible to children as young as 11. The inappropriate exposure of minors to explicit adult sexual content is excused by educators as "LGBTQIA+ representation." Many of us in the community remember being falsely accused of posing a sexual threat to children, and we vehemently oppose this harm to minors, especially when it is being done in our name. And why are these organizations marketing neo-identities to children like clothing brands? Why does Planned Parenthood work to rewrite gay history? Who benefits? The students are not benefiting from it, that's for sure. When asked how children are coping during these "unsafe times," teachers and support staff reported both higher-than-normal absenteeism and increased violent outbursts. This was observed even among elementary school-aged children, including instances of “destroying” classrooms and throwing chairs. Yikes. The reality is that these children are not in immediate danger, so whose angst are they expressing? Perhaps their parents’, their siblings’, or even their teachers’ irrational fears. The actual impact of Trump’s Executive Order to remove ideological indoctrination from K-12 public schools remains to be seen. How will the indoctrinated faculty and staff adapt to a school curriculum that prioritizes academics over social programming in the 2025–2026 school year? Will they step back and focus on education, or will they risk losing federal funding? And if funding is cut, where will the money come from? The Arcus Foundation? The UN? The NGOs driving this whole movement? Only time will tell. Our children need us to tell them the truth and build their resilience, not their fears. Hopefully, this marks a turning point, one that improves our children’s futures and leaves the trans takeover of public school schools as nothing more than an embarrassing footnote in history.

The National Association for Rational Sexual Offense Laws ( NARSOL ), formerly known as Reform Sex Offender Laws (RSOL), markets itself as a criminal justice reform organization. But beneath the surface lies a disturbing history—its founding members had direct ties to NAMBLA (North American Man/Boy Love Association), a pedophile group that openly promotes adult-child sexual relationships. RSOL was founded by activists who felt sex offender laws were too harsh. It gained traction in 2007, after Paul Shannon, a longtime activist, published an article in CounterPunch advocating for legal reform. But here’s where it gets dark: One of the early leaders of Reform Sex Offender Laws (RSOL), was Tom Reeves , a founding member of NAMBLA and vocal advocate for pedophilia. RSOL claims that Reeves resigned from NAMBLA before helping with this new organization. However, there is no proof of his resignation, and he was operating under the pseudonym “ Alex Marbury .” Tom Reeves never renounced his pro-pedophile beliefs and continued pushing the same narratives under RSOL. The clearest proof of RSOL’s direct collaboration with NAMBLA  came in March 2008 . RSOL, led by Paul Shannon and Tom Reeves, organized a protest at Coalinga State Hospital in California, where convicted sex offenders are civilly committed after serving their sentences. The event was kept secret to avoid backlash. But despite their efforts, NAMBLA member Joe Power  showed up—and later confirmed multiple NAMBLA members were there. So let’s be clear: RSOL  wasn’t just adjacent to NAMBLA; RSOL spent years eagerly working alongside NAMBLA affiliates and members. By 2012, the Sex Offender Registry Reformists’ (RSOL) ties to NAMBLA were becoming too obvious to ignore. When RSOL tried to hold its 4th Annual Conference  in Albuquerque, New Mexico, public outrage forced its leadership to answer for their connections. RSOL's own attorney admitted that a former NAMBLA member ( Tom Reeves ) had held a leadership role —but claimed he was removed. Yet, when Reeves died later that year, RSOL publicly mourned him. Paul Shannon even called him a “good friend and mentor.” So, was Reeves really removed? Or was he just quietly shuffled out to avoid bad press? In 2016, Reform Sex Offender Laws (RSOL) rebranded as The National Association for Rational Sexual Offense Laws (NARSOL), conveniently dropping the words “sex offender” from its name. Their reasoning? To reduce stigma. The reality? A calculated PR move to escape scrutiny while continuing their work. At its core, this organization wasn't really about “legal reform”—it was about protecting pedophiles like Tom Reeves. Paul Shannon sits at the top of The National Association for Rational Sexual Offense Laws’ (NARSOL) leadership today. This man was not just some random activist—he was at the center of it all. He was a close friend of Tom Reeves, continuing to support him even after his NAMBLA involvement was exposed. Shannon also defended convicted pedophile priest   Paul Shanley , who was caught preying on children and linked to NAMBLA conferences. In 1998, Paul Shannon co-signed  a petition that was first posted on “BoyChat,” a forum specifically for pedophiles, criticizing child protection laws. The petition's wording sounded eerily similar to NAMBLA's activist talking points. Is it any coincidence that this took place on “BoyChat?” A petition doesn't just “accidentally” end up on a pedophile message board. It was put there for a reason. According to NAMBLA 's website, the petition was co-written by none other than Tom Reeves  himself. Since the rebrand from RSOL to NARSOL, they seem to have cleaned up their public messaging. But have they actually changed? Their website no longer mentions lowering the age of consent or child sex education—but it used to. They have never publicly denounced their past connections to NAMBLA. Even if they’ve toned down their rhetoric— the same people who founded RSOL are still in charge today . That should concern everyone. What does The National Association for Rational Sexual Offense Laws (NARSOL) Advocate for today? As stated in their name, NARSOL advocates for reform of sex offense laws and the civil rights of sex offenders.  It is a national organization with affiliated state groups and local organizations in all but eight states. They also advocate for using less “stigmatizing vocabulary,” urging journalists to avoid the terms “pedophile” and “sex offender” while describing predators who seek to harm children. They even have their own guidelines for journalists  to follow and implement terminology that caters to the feelings of child molesters . (e.g., avoid using “pedophile” and “sex offender”). Why should journalists follow writing guidelines that are designed to destigmatize child molesters ? That sounds like a terrible idea. As a matter of fact, “stigmatized vocabulary” is necessary and should be put in boldface  when discussing organizations like The National Association for Rational Sexual Offense Laws (NARSOL), whose leaders and founders have a documented history of rubbing elbows with pedophiles  and sex offenders. Despite their claims of advocating for "rational" sex offender  laws, NARSOL takes no position on age of consent laws. Given their history, that silence speaks volumes. There is no such thing as a “rational sex offender.” The National Association for Rational Sexual Offense Laws (NARSOL) is practically crawling with convicted sex offenders , including their leaders who have collaborated with NAMBLA pedophiles  in the past. Their work mainly focuses on abolishing sex offender registries , opposing residency and proximity restrictions on offenders, criticizing lifetime supervision/parole, and fighting civil commitment laws which keep offenders incarcerated indefinitely after their original sentences are finished. Their leadership  is infested with convicted sex offenders or individuals with direct ties to them. Brenda Jones , Executive Director of NARSOL and Executive Director of Vivante Espero. – Relative of a sex offender.   Robin Vander Wall , Chair of NARSOL and President/Founder of Vivante Espero . – Convicted sex offender.   Paul Shannon , Chair Emeritus of NARSOL and credited as Founder of RSOL. – History of associating with NAMBLA since the 1970s.  Michael Shimkin , Vice Chair . Convicted - child pornography . Philip Kaso , Treasurer of NARSOL and Vice President of Vivante Espero. Convicted sex offender.   Sandy Rozek , Secretary of NARSOL and Secretary of Vivante Espero. Activist for sex offenders.  David Garlock . Murderer  who works with rehabilitating sex  criminals.  Guy Hamilton-Smith. Convicted sex offender.  Erik McInnis . Convicted  sex offender.   Don Thurber . Convicted sex offender Larry   Neely  – Treasurer. Convicted  sex offender .  Who Funds NARSOL? Follow the Money. NARSOL has a 501(c)(3) nonprofit foundation called Vivante Espero . Its goals are the same as NARSOL’s. More importantly, it seems that this is where the money is coming from. Vivante Espero finances the annual NARSOL conference and publishes NARSOL  materials, including the bi-monthly newsletter “The Digest.” They control the NARSOL legal fund, which finances litigation and amici support around the country to support civil rights challenges and abolish the sex offender registry. NARSOL has been involved with legal actions since 2013. According to their resource  database, “NARSOL Resources is designed to be the ultimate repository for sexual offense registry related data, academic research, lists, links, books, reports, advocacy organizations, audio and visual files, court cases, and much, much more. If a resource relates to the sexual offense registry and could be useful to our members and/or fellow advocates, we will make every effort to archive it here.” The National Association for Rational Sexual Offense Laws (NARSOL) and Vivante Espero are run by the same people , and their financial network is built around protecting those convicted of sex crimes. Their leadership is still dominated by convicted sex offenders. Their funding supports lawsuits aimed at dismantling sex offender registries and supervision laws. The same leadership that collaborated with NAMBLA is still running the organization. How much power and influence do former NAMBLA sympathizers still have within NARSOL today? NARSOL should issue a full, public disavowal of its past and any remaining individuals who hold pro-pedophile views. Until then, they deserve nothing but skepticism. 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Sex offenders rally to fight discriminatory laws. https://www.prisonlegalnews.org/news/2016/feb/2/sex-offenders-rally-fight-discriminatory-laws/   Public Defenders. Do sex offender registries make us safer? (With David Garlock). https://publicdefenders.us/blogs/do-sex-offender-registries-make-us-safer-wfrontsdavid-garlock/   Salem News. Association suspends alleged child pornographer. https://www.salemnews.com/news/local_news/association-suspends-alleged-child-pornographer/article_5887fb6b-42f2-5cd8-87fb-91335b558c3a.html   Salem News. Christopher Shimkin of Beverly admits to child porn charges. https://www.salemnews.com/news/local_news/christopher-shimkin-of-beverly-admits-to-child-porn-charges/article_95ad9004-45b3-54ab-9dc8-eb9b5ea772d1.html   Salem News. Police: Beverly man sent cop child porn. https://www.salemnews.com/news/local_news/police-beverly-man-sent-cop-child-porn/article_bc0844c3-116e-5fa1-994f-b715beb3846f.html   Santa Fe New Mexican. 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The ongoing conversation around gender dysphoria and “gender-affirming care” is deeply concerning, to say the least. Gender dysphoria  is defined as a perceived misalignment between one’s biological sex and how they identify. Gender dysphoria has been linked to delusion and psychosis . Affirming a delusion or false belief is ethically questionable. Those who have a diagnosis of gender dysphoria are encouraged to socially transition and medicalize with cross-sex hormones and irreversible surgeries. Some might argue that they are engaging in self-harm. Instead of helping patients accept reality, “gender-affirming” counselors affirm these errant beliefs. They should help these individuals move away from their desire to self-harm and address the real issues causing their distress. From a professional standpoint, doctors and therapists have an ethical responsibility to challenge destructive behaviors, not reward them. But the current model of care is affirmation-only. Detransitioner Chloe Cole gives a speech  about her experience with the affirmative care model If mental health professionals affirmed a client's belief that they were Superman and should jump off a building to try to fly, they would be held accountable for putting the client in danger. How is this any different? By affirming a child's “gender identity,” professionals are violating the Hippocratic Oath to “do no harm.” This should not be taken lightly because it puts patients on a path to permanent self-harm. By not addressing the client's underlying issues like PTSD, traumatic life experiences, poor self-esteem, body dysmorphia, and autism, they may be doing them a disservice. Even more insidiously, these issues are being pushed onto children by authority figures whom they are supposed to trust to keep them safe, such as parents and teachers. Affirming a child's belief that they are “trapped in the wrong body” and will never feel comfortable with themselves unless they get dangerous surgical procedures may traumatize them even further. It gives legitimacy to distorted thinking. The gender affirmation model is literally driving these kids crazy, and the only “treatments” they are offered have shown to do more harm than good. Image generated by Grok AI Gender-affirming clinicians and their enablers are trapping children in a vicious cycle, perpetuated in the name of a pseudoscientific ideology. This cycle can only be broken through proper evaluation and therapeutic practices that allow them to explore these feelings. By helping clients face reality rather than encouraging them to dissociate from their bodies, we may be able to guide children away from self-harm and toward addressing the root causes of their distress. True mental health care should be grounded in material reality. No child is trapped in the wrong body. Telling them otherwise is morally, ethically, and clinically indefensible. References  American Psychiatric Association. What is Gender Dysphoria?  https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/gender-dysphoria/what-is-gender-dysphoria   Barr, S. M., Roberts, D., & Thakkar, K. N. (2021). Psychosis in transgender and gender non-conforming individuals: A review of the literature and a call for more research. Psychiatry research, 306, 114272. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.psychres.2021.114272   X (Formerly Twitter), February 2025. Do No Harm.  https://x.com/donoharm/status/1887924286012150180?t=s83yf1VTfEFSgO2fS4XuFQ&s=19

Lilly Contino, perhaps one of the loudest and most alarming trans activists, has no business inserting himself into children’s spaces where he does not belong. Contino’s selfish approach to activism has led to one outrageous incident after another. He deliberately forces himself into spaces meant for children, antagonizes people for making honest mistakes, and thrives on creating public outrage to feed his victim narrative. Lilly Contino, formerly known as Nicholas Sylvan Contino, is a self-proclaimed TikTok influencer, game designer, and transgender “educator” with a passion for stirring up arguments and causing conflict. This brand of “education” is very problematic, to say the least. Instead of meaningful discussions, Contino thrives on provocation, rage, and bullying. Reporting from LGBTQ+  and entertainment media  has been favorable. We are not surprised, since these publications tend to run by sex pests  who harass their staff, like PinkNews, whose executives were accused of sexual misconduct, groping, and kissing young staff who were too drunk to consent, with 33 staff members coming forward to share their stories. PinkNews has spent 2 years slandering Gays Against Groomers and churning out smear campaigns, fueling media bias and the lies on our Wikipedia page. The groomers out themselves eventually. And this is the website defending Lilly Contino. Take note. Pink News  makes the false claim that Contino was harassed in a restaurant, which was a lie. According to The Independent , Contino was “verbally assaulted” in public, which also was not the case. One media  outlet published “Is Lily Tino an Inspiration for the Younger Generation? Without a doubt, Lily Tino serves as an inspiration for many, especially the younger generation . Her story showcases the importance of perseverance, creativity, and staying true to oneself. By sharing her experiences and insights, she empowers others to embrace their unique journeys and pursue their dreams.” Contino has been known to film restaurant staff for making honest mistakes and then publicly shaming them online. He forces adult conversations about “gender identity” into spaces meant for children. He has filmed himself in girl’s restrooms and makes those around him visibly uncomfortable. In the videos he posts online, he is always dressed up in bright, child-like clothing to create content aimed at children, disguised as “education.” His activism is not about progress. It is about attention, validation, and pushing boundaries. Lilly Tino doesn't just film himself acting out in public. He creates his own pornography that goes viral online. His most well-known skit is dressing up like a cartoon character, Velma from Scooby Doo, and searching for his penis. "Jinkies!" he says for the camera, squinting through a magnifying glass and looking for his genitals. This is a common theme in trans pornography, which sometimes centers on the penile shrinkage caused by estrogen injections: the same drug he pushes on children. One particularly disturbing incident happened at DisneyLand. In May 2024, Contino went to Disneyland, a place designed for families and children, to film himself discussing sex change surgery in explicit detail. In the video, Contino holds a Minnie Mouse cake pop and uses it as a metaphor for his upcoming surgery, referring to his penis as a “marshmallow wand” and the surgical transformation into a “surgical vagina” as a “marshmallow tunnel.” This was not a private discussion. It was filmed in a public space, surrounded by children, and posted for all to see. Disneyland is a place for childhood innocence, not for graphic discussions about amputating body parts. Why would someone feel the need to discuss genital mutilation in front of children?! There is absolutely no reason for any adult to discuss their genitals in a theme park. This sets a dangerous precedent, normalizing explicit conversations in spaces meant to be safe for children. It is yet another example of radical activists normalizing inappropriate topics in front of children. TalkTV covered the incident, questioning why there wasn’t more outrage from the general public. This was not an accident. It was deliberate. Contino is not just controversial online. He actively seeks out conflict in real life. In March 2023, Contino was involved in a heated altercation at a San Francisco Cheesecake Factory. A 70-year-old woman confronted Contino, furious after being filmed by him inside the women’s restroom. The verbal confrontation quickly escalated, and the woman threatened to punch Contino, a moment that Contino conveniently recorded for social media. Another video shows the influencer filming himself leaving the restroom after scaring a three-year-old CHILD. Instead of apologizing, he took a video and used it to play the victim. This is part of a larger pattern of behavior. Contino has filmed inside multiple women’s restrooms, creating an environment where women and mothers feel unsafe. According to the Toronto Sun, Lilly enjoys filming the staff at various restaurants and getting misgendered, so he can post the footage on social media. In one instance, a waiter made an honest mistake, but Contino escalated the situation, berated the employee, and demanded to speak to the manager. Contino doesn’t document discrimination; he manufactures it. Perhaps the most disturbing aspect of Contino’s activism is his repeated efforts to engage with children. Contino dressed as “Miss Rachel,” a beloved children’s YouTube personality–a deliberate attempt to appeal to very young children. Miss Rachel’s main audience consists of toddlers aged 1 to 5 years old. Let that sink in. Contino’s social media content is terrifying. His Facebook page is a smorgasbord of disturbing content geared towards parents and their children. All of the video themes are the same – dressing in bright, child-friendly colors that match the trans flag. He shares videos on how parents should introduce pronouns to their children. He frequently records himself in spaces where children are present, including restrooms and playgrounds. This is not normal adult behavior. It is a clear attempt at boundary violation. He posted a video encouraging “queer kids” to get angry. Contino has openly stated that "We can get stuff done with anger." He has encouraged trans youth to “fight back” against those who do not affirm their identity. He is radicalizing young followers, teaching them to choose anger over rationality. This type of content fuels division, hostility, and potentially dangerous behavior. Instead of teaching kids to accept people who think differently, Contino promotes an “us vs. them” mentality.  This is extremism. Lilly has a long history of antagonizing people in public for making mistakes and sexualizing children. He is a radical provocateur pushing an agenda that disregards decency, privacy, and the safety of minors. He pushes explicit conversations into children’s spaces, baits public confrontations for social media attention, films inside restrooms, and tramples on the privacy of others. The trans agenda has absolutely NO place in children’s spaces. There is NO reason a kid should be told that they are anything other than a boy or a girl. Does Contino genuinely believe that he's doing the right thing? Because this behavior just makes people dislike him even more, further alienating himself. From graphic discussions about genital surgery at Disneyland to starting trouble in restrooms and restaurants, Contino’s behavior has officially earned him a place on the Gays Against Groomers Radar Watchlist. Leave the kids alone, Lilly. References Addley, E. (2024, December 10). Claims against PinkNews bosses of sexual misconduct ‘very concerning’, says No 10. The Guardian. https://www.theguardian.com/media/2024/dec/10/claims-against-pinknews-bosses-of-sexual-misconduct-very-concerning-says-no-10?CMP=share_btn_url   Angela, M. (2024). “I’m Gonna Get Banned From Disney”: Transgender Activist Alludes To Removing Genitalia With Sweet Treats. Daily Caller. https://dailycaller.com/2024/05/11/lilly-contino-transgender-activist-genitalia-disney-treats/   CreepTok Files. (2025, January 14). TikTok’s MOST HATED trans creator (Even by their own community) | The Untold Story of Lily Tino [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_zKNHEXmfh0   Facebook. 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